WHAT DOES IT ACTUALLY MEAN TO LOVE YOURSELF? It is not selfish!

YES, we do use the term self-love now a days because it sounds sassy or stylish right?But do people actually practice it ? Nope...

Loving yourself  is like "mothering" yourself  and it does not happen in one day. 

THE MAJOR DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SELF-LOVE & SELFISHNESS IS :-

• Self-love is putting your needs before other's wants. Selfishness is vice versa
• Self-love is making healthy boundaries and sticking to what you know is best for you , whereas selfishness is taking advantage of the boundaries .
• Selfishness is thinking just about yourself , self-love , however is thinking about yourself and putting yourself first but also being a good human. 
• Selfishness is loving yourself  in a "toxic" way but self-love is nurturing yourself like your mother does💗.                              

      You do not owe anyone anything, everyone can take care of themselves but all you have is YOU and that is enough. Validate yourself and be on the path that you need to be , not the path other's want you to be in. These are just words until you truly feel them .