( A quick little warning :- this is a SERIOUS topic. IF THIS SEEMS TRIGGERING TO YOU PLEASE CLICK AWAY AND SEEK HELP. I am going to try to put everything in a funny way , because its already DARK . )
Definition :-
Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that’s seen in abusive relationships. It’s the act of manipulating a person by forcing them to question their thoughts, memories, and the events occurring around them. A victim of gaslighting can be pushed so far that they question their own sanity.
It is basically a TWISTING-REALITY game.
It can occur in any relationship to be honest. Between a parent-child , boss-employee, friends and romantic relationships.
So here's a little example of how gaslighting LOOKS like :-
Someone hurts you , now you are hurt . As a normal human you confront like " hey dude ,why would you do that ? you know you really hurt me "
Now this person who did you wrong goes like " HUH ?! HOW CAN YOU THINK I WRONGED YOU ???? YOU ARE IMAGINING THINGS !!! "
now is the funny part ------- THIS PERSON IS NOW MAD AT YOU FOR CONFRONTING HOW THEY HURT YOU .
and you are standing there like
But things get REAL difficult with time . You keep on giving them a free pass and the manipulators be taking you for granted , like soon they will be calling you with some other name and legit CONVINCE you to think that you are wrong with your name too.
Its scary , because you feel helpless and MOST IMPORTANTLY you can't explain what is going on . You know that something is wrong but you are manipulated so cleverly that you don't even want to believe yourself , and that's messed up .
The manipulators feed off fear , they are sadistic and they enjoy seeing you in pain. They gaslight you to think they are saving you , to think as if you are miserable without them , when in turn they are the parasite feeding off of you....sucking the life out of your soul , like bro go get a burger leave me alone, excuse me ?
Another interesting fact about manipulators ,THEY LIE. Very professionally .
You see their face in public ,they look absolutely like an angel , the mask falls off real quick . They LIE about things , HORRIBLE THINGS to manipulate you in doing stuff that are favorable for them .
Here's a MY FAVOURITE part :- Look.....be it manipulators or whoever , TRUTH COMES OUT . Like bruh who you tryna fool lmao ? You slowly understand their tactics , you keep a track of things they do to you , you see a pattern , you finally realize what the actual freak HAS been going on .
SO
YOU EITHER
Focus on yourself not giving any kind of attention that these gaslighters want :- they see you doing well ..... BOOM they are offended
like cmon HOW DARE YOU BE HAPPY ? DON'T YOU KNOW THE ONLY THING YOU SHOULD DO IS BE A SLAVE TO THESE DUMB B.
( sarcasm apart) They are furious at how you are slowly breaking away from them( you are doing good, go on because your well being comes first ) .
OR
YOU
Confront them of their behaviour. Then they call you THINGS which THEY ARE.
REMEMBER THE CLOSEST THING TO ACCEPTING IS MIRRORING -to manipulators
They call you , what they are .
For example :- They are the one cheating , and you got deadass proof , but then suddenly you are somehow the one cheating (when you confront)
(Screaming thru texts ) YOU GOTTA GO AWAY FROM THESE MANIPULATORS . TO SAVE. YOUR LIFE. TO SAVE YOUR SANITY . RUN BRO RUN .
but not everything is gaslighting so you need to think rationally and spot out .
Signs you are being gaslighted :-
- You ask yourself, “Am I too sensitive?” many times per day.
- You often feel confused and even crazy in the relationship.
- You’re always apologizing.
- You can’t understand why you aren’t happier.
- You frequently make excuses for your partner’s behavior.
- You know something is wrong but you just don’t know what.
- You start lying to avoid put-downs and reality twists.
- You have trouble making simple decisions.
- You wonder if you are good enough.
Sometimes you really need to do what is good for you . Let go the thought of everyone else . You are the one experiencing pain. please understand yourself WALK AWAY FROM THINGS THAT DO NOT SERVE YOU , WALK AWAY BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU DESERVE THE BEST .
No one is gonna do anything for , that is YOUR duty . Don't let yourself down . Don't disrespect yourself by letting those dirty mind game players in your life .
THINGS WILL BE ALRIGHT
I know you are in denial , of how the person you cared so much for , can cause so much of damage , but in times like these....these people are put in your life to show you HOW MUCH YOU ARE WORTH.
GO LIVE YOUR LIFE
MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY
WORK HARD
THINGS WILL FALL INTO PLACE
* please know that I am not a professional , I am speaking about my views on NARCISSISTIC MANIPULATORS , in as funny manner as possible . if you need help please connect to a therapist , please get the help . *
MORAL OF THE DAY :- HEY YOU NICE KEEP GOING !!!
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