HOW TO FIND YOURSELF? Be you

 Who am I? What do I want? What am I here for? These are the questions that may haunt you.

Life often puts us in the hardest of situations which can be handled only by ourselves. Any of us in these situations may feel like we're sinking under the water with no one else to support us.

Here we'll show you some ways to come out of these problems and be yourself again:-

First of all,believe it or not but there is absolutely no one in this world for you except you!

However impossible or hard it may seem you have to realise the problem and come out of it.

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After getting rid of that bug that's bothering you ,you need to do things to find yourself .

Figure Out Who You Are

People are mostly a combination of their good and bad traits, and figuring out which of these define you will help you understand yourself better.

Start by defining yourself according to your terms. Are you funny? Charming? Altruistic? Passionate? Aggressive? Ill-willed? It might be anything.

Being able to name your defining characteristics allows you to see yourself in a balanced way.

More importantly, it encourages you to become self-aware and distinguish the good from the bad.

• Stop bothering of what other people think about you . Why to do so? Well, are they the one who knows how it feels like to live your life? NOPE! And also you are not in Britain's got talent that other people get to  judge you. I mean ,let them judge ,just STOP validating their bullshit judgments .

• Stop focusing on the past you . Your past actions ,though impactful , do not define who you are in this present moment.

• Be fearless ! It's your life. Don't think twice before trying out the things that you've always wanted to try.

• Stop depending on anyone else except yourself . There is nothing that the others can do and you cannot.

• Talk to yourself . Do what feels right and follow your intuitions .It will never lead you to a wrong destination.

Finally ,find a perfect time that feels right and let go of all the shit that weights you down. At the end of the day everybody wants you to suffer, so you know what ? Smile and that will be the reciprocation.